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Men Tell All: What They Want in Kissing

According to the nearly 100 men who responded to our online kissing survey, 81% of them want lots of kissing – in or out of bed – because it makes them feel closer to their partner.   It’s common knowledge that women love kissing and that it’s an important part of a dating and relationship experience.  [...]

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Kissing – Is It Only Face to Face?

The following kiss tip was sent in by a subscriber.  It’s a good one! Kissing is a face to face activity.  Relationship kissing is eye to eye, breath to breath, mouth to mouth and total sense involvement.  But that doesn’t mean that it goes without variety and that you can’t add excitement by being creative. [...]

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French Kissing: When and Why?

How soon do you want to introduce the French kiss?  Personally, I think people don’t consider the French Kiss special enough to save for when the time is really right – when the passion has built up and you want to express and to share it.  And, for that matter, what’s the definition of French [...]

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Question 4 – Accept a date from Woman – Pie Chart

Dating: would you accept a date from someone you just met?

Would you accept a date from a man or woman you just met? That was a question on our Attraction Survey. And interestingly, women and men agree that they would say yes to a date from someone they just met. However, there were some caveats to this response from both women and men. Women said: [...]

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The Three Paradoxes of Great Sex

Michael Webb has written many books on sex and romance and he really “gets” the female when it comes to the topic of sex.  Following is his report on three paradoxes of great sex.  It’s good advice for any man, regardless of his experience. These three mistakes all come from the “land of good intention,” [...]

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What’s the Attraction?

Even though it’s the 21st Century, there is still a bit of a stigma for a woman to ask a man on a date, and even more so if she has just met him.  So, I’m not surprised that 56% of women respondents in our Attraction Survey said they had never done that.  And another [...]

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Don’t Ask for the Kiss

Most women do NOT want a man to ask if he can kiss her.  Most often the kiss is done without any negotiation or discussion on the subject ahead of time.  If you’re discussing how to do it or if you can do it – then it is more like a research project and not [...]

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Birds Do It – Kiss, That Is

I was curious what other species besides humans perform the act of kissing.   My research revealed that just one other specie does what could be considered sexual kissing – or performs a ritual involving a kiss during mating. Drum roll, please……… WHITE-FRONTED PARROTS These birds, native to Mexico and and Central America, are believed to be the only [...]

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Women, Climate and Orgasm

Women, Climate and Orgasm A Modern Version of “The Princess and the Pea” Got your attention?  Recently I read an article about some Dutch sex researchers who found in a study that women with cold feet orgasm less than women with warm, cozy feet.  Strange study – but actually some good information.  So, do the [...]

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The REAL Secrets to Sexual Mastery

Sex, for most men, is a very goal-oriented activity.  And that’s okay, but if a man doesn’t understand how women operate, the sex between them may not be very satisfying – for her.  I’ve had men say this to me:  “I want you to come, baby.”  Well, gee, no pressure there.  Then that’s all I’ll [...]

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