Most women do NOT want a man to ask if he can kiss her. Most often the kiss is done without any negotiation or discussion on the subject ahead of time. If you’re discussing how to do it or if you can do it – then it is more like a research project and not a fun thing to do.
Remember to rely on body language. If the woman is keeping eye contact and lightly touching you while she talks, chances are she will be receptive to your advances – for kissing, that is. And if you are a woman, watch if he’s paying attention to you – if he is acting bored and looking around the room, chances are you shouldn’t anticipate a kiss later on. There probaby won’t be a later on.
There may be times when the first kiss just doesn’t work out. For some reason or another, it’s not pleasing to one or the other individuals. Many times this can result in no second chance. My advice to both men and women is to tread lightly and “read” the other person’s lips. To aggressively kiss someone you’ve never kissed – unless there is a great deal of passion that has built up prior to the kiss – is probably asking for a shut down.
Once you have kissed the other person and things seem to be acceptable to both of you, then you can start asking what the other prefers, favorite kissing positions, types of kisses, etc. It’s always prudent to move a bit slowly when first getting started – check the barometer of the other person and take it from there.
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