Survey Factoid:  Eighty percent of women say they enjoy a full contact kiss where tongues and lips are in contact with each other.  What does this mean?  Well, it means you’re not focusing on just the lips or just the tongue – you are mixing things up.  We have very high amounts of nerve endings on our lips, so use them.  This will titillate your partner and make her want more, so don’t forget the lips.  But introducing the tongue into the kiss is appropriate, if you don’t just thrust in and out and forget about her lips.  It’s said that variety is the spice of life – and in kissing that is the case.