How soon do you want to introduce the French kiss? Personally, I think people don’t consider the French Kiss special enough to save for when the time is really right – when the passion has built up and you want to express and to share it. And, for that matter, what’s the definition of French kissing? Where does regular open mouth kissing with a little tongue touch become the famous “French Kiss?”
I don’t know that I have the answer but I do have an opinion. It seems that French kissing has the connotation, at least for those who are new or inexperienced kissers, of being a kiss that takes a step further into intimacy. It also has the connotation of representing the sex act. And that’s why, in my opinion, it should be used sparingly. At least until you have established your relationship. Passion may be your guide. Why not reserve it for those moments?
Let’s face it, at some point you’re going to be at the spot where your relationship will either continue on in an intimate way, or it will not. If you’ve signed up for our weekly kiss tips you may recall some about reading body language and being aware of what vibes the other person is putting out, and how then you can figure out if it’s appropriate to take the next step to a full French kiss.
Being on the receiving end of many tongue kisses, which I guess are synonymous with French kisses, I can tell you that many, many times, more than I would have liked, these were unwanted intrusions into my space, my mouth, my personal comfort level. The outcome was not the desired one.
Every single kiss should NOT be a French kiss, or it risks losing its special connotation. Save the French kiss for that special person and special moments. Remember, don’t kiss as a means to an end. Kissing is too important a part of a relationship for that. It is something to be enjoyed – by both parties and doesn’t always have to lead to sex. Kissing is about connecting. It is a place where that either happens or it doesn’t. If you rush through it, you may never know.
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