How important is kissing when you are in a relationship and have feelings for a man?
Above is the first of 28 questions in our online kissing survey for women. Ninety-eight percent of women say that kissing is either important or very important when in a relationship – but I wouldn’t limit it to being in a relationship. Women like kissing – period – whether in a casual dating experience or a committed relationship.
But we also found that they don’t like kissing a man who isn’t giving them what they want. And – what do they want? Listen up. Here are some responses to our question about what makes a man a good kisser.
- Someone who takes his time and builds up to a climax. Starts with slow kisses, soft kisses (no tongue) and then, as both people get more aroused, engages in full contact kissing.
- When a man is conscious of the woman he is kissing he cannot fail to be a good kisser. Listening to her will prove anyone a good kisser.
- Desire with gentle passion – give me the impression that he really wants to/enjoys kiss.
- Take time – closeness not about just the sex. Kissing without sex.
- Considerate, not overly aggressive, lips and tongue moist but not sloppy wet, holds me during the kiss (makes me feel like he doesn’t want me to go).
- A man who has the basics down, understands what things are generally liked by most women (ex. Soft, slow kisses), is willing to try new techniques, but pays attention to his partner’s response.
- Sensuality. Don’t rush it. Kissing is like painting. Slow strokes always make the best masterpieces.
Getting the picture? If you aren’t already following some of these general techniques, then I hope you take the advice from the women above and try them out. You’ll be glad you did and most likely rewarded for it.


Most men think they are good kissers. But are they? Are you? This book delves into the minds of real women to uncover the truth about what they want and expect in a kiss. You will find that kissing is important to women. A bad kiss can nip a potential relationship in the bud. In an ongoing relationship, kissing is often the way to strengthen the bond and maintain intimacy.
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