Test Your Kissing Skills

What’s your kissing IQ?  Do you think that you know what a woman wants better than she knows what she wants?  Think again bucko.  Truth is that you might be good – you might be a very good kisser.  Willing to test your kissing IQ?  What do women tell you about how to kiss a woman?  You can rely on your own experience, and of course, you should.  But do you really want to learn how to kiss a woman?

Remember the short, balding guy who was shopping with that great looking, tall blond with more sex appeal than you could ignore?  Sure you do; we have all been there.  So what did the short, ordinary looking guy have going for him that attracted such a knockout?  Well, we could speculate, but that would be ego talking.  We have all been the victims of our own egos.  She didn’t seem interested in you, did she?  Not a response that you were accustomed to. 

Put speculation aside for a minute.  From the mouths of women, possibly that very woman, come suggestions – maybe answers.  At the end of the day, women evaluate you on several levels.  If you are hung up on having a fast car, disposable income and a large, well let’s say ego, you are missing the boat.  It will sail without you.  I’m suggesting to you that among other things, that guy was a great kisser.  I’m suggesting that he knew how to connect with a woman when all five of their senses converged at the same place at the same time.

You like sports analogies?  If you do, then you know that you cannot get around the diamond without going through first base.  For a woman, and if you are lucky, for you as well, extraordinary kissing gets you to first base and even home.  Determine your own goals, mine is to find a woman with whom I can relate…a woman who can move me with a gentle kiss…a woman who can satisfy me with flashing eyes and soft lips.  If she can do that, she can do anything.  If she can do that, I’m all in.

I’m going to do you a favor and share something recently picked up on.  There is a lot of kissing and relationship advice out there.  No, not offering you that.  What I am offering you is a window into what women have to say about how they want to be kissed and what it does for them.  They will tell you how and why – the rest is up to you.

 An online survey and the book that followed reports the results of over 300 women relating their experiences with the macho kisser and the meek kisser.  Think you know it all?  You don’t?  If you improve your kissing IQ, you will improve your relationship IQ.  Not interested in a relationship?  OK, you are interested in women are you not?  If you don’t listen in, you will just be making it easier for those of us who do.

Contributed by a frequent visitor to our site.