Since 75% of women in our survey think men don’t know what women want in a kiss, and please – DON’T ASK – what’s a guy to do? It goes back to communication and reading body language. If you think things are going well and you want to try for a kiss, go slowly and softly at first. If she’s all about it, then bingo – go for it. But follow her lead. She is the one who will either accept your kisses and ask for more if she likes them – or slam the door in your face. Guess who’s in control?
Unfortunately, men, that’s the way things shake out. It’s not a matter of power or even control, but it is how the world works. You can’t force a woman to kiss the way you want her to kiss. You can follow her lead, and if you care enough about her, then introduce whatever style it is that floats your boat! It’s all how you approach the subject – and her.
Remember this: Women Do Love Kissing. So, provided you’re not suggesting something that would really turn her off, and everyone has different likes and dislikes, she may be amenable to your idea.



Most men think they are good kissers. But are they? Are you? This book delves into the minds of real women to uncover the truth about what they want and expect in a kiss. You will find that kissing is important to women. A bad kiss can nip a potential relationship in the bud. In an ongoing relationship, kissing is often the way to strengthen the bond and maintain intimacy.