This is an offering from a reader and I think he’s got something here.  Read on for his idea of a sensual kiss.

Put your hands in her hair.  That’s right, if it’s time for that special kiss, the one that will speed up your heart rate and tune you both in, then it’s time to put our hands in the hair. 

Take her face in both hands (around her cheek and lower jaw) and look directly into her eyes…you want that visual contact – she does too.   Let your hands glide slowly up her jaw line and let your fingers slightly interlace with her hair.  If her hair is short, move up a bit.  You want your hands gently caressing her neck from just below to just above the hairline.  If she is into you, this will make her tingle and heighten the anticipation.   There are some women that may not like having your hands in their hair.  You’ll know soon enough and you can adjust.   For now let’s focus on the event..you’ve got her. 

 Don’t rush into it;  move slowly so that your senses engage and provide your brains with the input from the touch, sent, sound and sight of each other.  Kiss her first on the cheek or lightly on the lips…let them linger…let her body language guide you.  From there you are on your own; however, we’ll be back with more suggestions soon.

 Repeat as often as necessary!