The Author’s Kissing Story

Hi, I’m Peg and like most women, I love to kiss my man.  Who doesn’t enjoy kissing and the feelings that accompany it?  For quite some time, my experience led me to believe that kissing was probably of more importance to women than men.  It was so important to me that I wanted to know more about it.

A few years ago I was involved in dating, and met a lot of guys.  It took me several years to find my man, and along the way I was fortunate enough to kiss a few princes and as you might imagine, there were a few frogs.  Some guys just don’t get it, and some could use a little help.  To quite a few, kissing is a means to an end, and they overlook the importance of kissing to women.  They more often than not find out through rejection, without understanding why they got the kiss off.

Kissing is a first impression.  It is like presenting your resume.  If you did your home work and care enough to present your best, it will show through.  Your standard of care and preparation qualify you as a sincere candidate.  A sloppy and poorly prepared resume won’t get you the interview.  Often you need some experienced guidance to help you put your best appearance out there.  It’s not so different where kissing is involved.  If you don’t really know what the reader is looking for, it isn’t likely that you will provide it.  You may be well qualified, but you don’t get invited back.

If you haven’t taken the time or interest to understand the interpersonal dynamics that affect what a woman wants in a kiss, she thinks that you will feel the same when it comes to dating, romance and sex.  Is she just another pretty face, or is she important enough to matter?  Think about it.  Too often when it comes to kissing and presenting your resume, men are ill prepared or have mistaken conceptions.  As a result of a particularly bad kiss, I determined to do something to help.  That’s when the idea for a survey on kissing was launched and we had over 300 enthusiastic women respond.  They revealed the good, the bad and the ugly, and it is all there for your benefit.  “The Truth About How to Kiss Women“ reveals to you the stories, the do’s and do not’s of kissing.

Do you want your relationship to be better?  It isn’t reserved for first daters; everyone can improve their kissing skills and technique even if they have been in a long term relationship.  Heck, it could even be more important and provide a relationship enhancing boost.  There really is nothing to lose, and maybe a whole lot to gain.  “The Truth About How to Kiss Women” can provide you the insight and knowledge of how to put your best lips forward.

There are a number of stories in the comments of the survey respondents.  Let me tell you my story – the one that launched me on a quest to find the perfect kisser.

I was fortunate to meet a lot of great guys.  While trying one of the popular dating sites, I met one of these guys.  He was handsome, intelligent, accomplished, considerate and funny.  He had a nice looking mouth and lips.  Over the course of three dates, we shared a few brief kisses when he brought me home.  He was a gentleman as well. 

Was it too good to be true?  As it turned out, it was.

After those dates, I wondered what it would be like to really kiss him.  Where would it lead?  Could he be the guy that I was looking for?  Would he know how to kiss me the way I wanted?  It didn’t take long to find out.  When he called for another date, I was ready.  The date was fun, great Blues music and a very well made Cosmo.  On the way out to his car he stopped me, looked into my eyes and moved closer for the “kiss.”  This was going to be great, how could it not be?  Oh boy, was I wrong!

Instead of the sensual, welcoming kiss that I was expecting, I got “the tongue.”  Well, more than just the tongue – a lot more – and definitely not pleasant.  I said that there were some frogs.  The next day I called him and said that we could be friends, but not in a romantic way.  He accepted that – I was too chicken to tell him why.  Here is my chance to help other women avoid such an unfortunate situation and a way to bring this knowledge to men.  You can find more about my story and those of other women in the book.  

Get your resume ready, and if you aren’t looking for a new romantic interest, but would like to make the one you have better – here are the words from the lips of three hundred women who can help you.  “The Truth About How to Kiss Women” is downloadable and available to you right now.