In this case I’m speaking of kissing. Are you a good kisser or a bad kisser – period, end of story? Or do you become a good kisser when you learn to give your partner what he or she wants or likes in a kiss? And do you care enough to adapt?
Women definitely think there are good kissers and bad kissers. There may be style differences between men and women, but that would not necessarily stop things from proceeding – IF – there is open communication. And this doesn’t have to be verbal. There’s a way to test how well your styles match. At some point early in the relationship, put her in the driver’s seat by letting her take responsibility for the kisses. Is it pleasurable? Can you adapt? How different is it from your style? Does it matter to you?
One woman said this: “Although, I hope that your future book is successful in teaching the bad kissers to be good kissers.” If the information in “The Truth About How to Kiss Women” helps to close the gap in any way between what women want and what men give, then her hope will be realized.
In conclusion: Kissing is relative – you can learn to adapt – and be a good kisser in her eyes, but ultimately the chemistry and desire has to be there.


Most men think they are good kissers. But are they? Are you? This book delves into the minds of real women to uncover the truth about what they want and expect in a kiss. You will find that kissing is important to women. A bad kiss can nip a potential relationship in the bud. In an ongoing relationship, kissing is often the way to strengthen the bond and maintain intimacy.